Well, this episode proves that Cori and I do argue.  What makes our arguments different is that we know that in the end, we will eventually have to come together, resolve the issue, and move forward together.  This has been the hardest process, harder than her or I ever imagined when we embarked on the journey.  There have been so many times when we just feel at the mercy of other things.  Cori is a master of her own destiny, and being and feeling so out of control can make anyone feel insecure.  Sometimes you lose sight of things when all of your focus is on this one thing.  We had a ripple in our pond, the boat rocked, but together, we steadied, cast out the oars and continued to row.